{"id":2134,"date":"2023-11-30T17:46:37","date_gmt":"2023-11-30T16:46:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laboratorioautodidactico.com\/posilovani-zivotnich-vazeb-sila-lasky-od-detstvi\/"},"modified":"2024-04-23T22:08:48","modified_gmt":"2024-04-23T20:08:48","slug":"posilovani-zivotnich-vazeb-sila-lasky-od-detstvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laboratorioautodidactico.com\/cs\/posilovani-zivotnich-vazeb-sila-lasky-od-detstvi\/","title":{"rendered":"POSILOV\u00c1N\u00cd \u017dIVOTN\u00cdCH VAZEB: S\u00cdLA L\u00c1SKY OD D\u011aTSTV\u00cd"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Autor: Esperanza Chac\u00f3n<\/strong><\/p>\n

„Na po\u010d\u00e1tku \u017eivota znamen\u00e1 l\u00e1ska uspokojov\u00e1n\u00ed prim\u00e1rn\u00edch pot\u0159eb. V prvn\u00edch m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch a letech to znamen\u00e1 hodn\u011b mazlen\u00ed a tulen\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b ned\u00e1v\u00e1 slovu ‚l\u00e1ska‘ v\u00fdznam, kter\u00fd mu d\u00e1v\u00e1me my, ale trp\u00ed, kdy\u017e mu chyb\u00ed. Fyzick\u00fd kontakt je pro d\u011bti nezbytnou podm\u00ednkou, bez n\u011bj nelze projevovat l\u00e1sku.“ (Janov 2009438, 439).<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Vazby, kter\u00e9 si vytvo\u0159\u00edme v ran\u00e9m v\u011bku, jsou nepochybn\u011b t\u011bmi, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m poskytuj\u00ed emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed bezpe\u010d\u00ed a ur\u010duj\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 fyziologick\u00fd, psychologick\u00fd a neurologick\u00fd stav, zkr\u00e1tka n\u00e1\u0161 stav mysli, na\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, na\u0161e<\/p>\n

schopnost porozum\u011bt sv\u011btu a na\u0161emu zdrav\u00ed. Proto na\u0161e prvn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti a prvn\u00ed kontakt s ostatn\u00edmi ur\u010duj\u00ed na\u0161e „\u017eivotn\u00ed pouto“ a kvalitu na\u0161eho spojen\u00ed s \u010dleny soci\u00e1ln\u00edho prost\u0159ed\u00ed, do kter\u00e9ho pat\u0159\u00edme.<\/p>\n

Velk\u00fd badatel Arthur Janov v t\u00e9to souvislosti tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee: „Kdy\u017e v prvn\u00ed f\u00e1zi \u017eivota nen\u00ed l\u00e1ska p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1na, syst\u00e9m se „smr\u0161\u0165uje“ a nevyv\u00edj\u00ed se“ a \u017ee „schopnost d\u00e1vat a p\u0159ij\u00edmat l\u00e1sku se sn\u00ed\u017e\u00ed na cel\u00fd \u017eivot“. Podle Janova „nedostatek l\u00e1sky nen\u00ed abstrakce, ale doslova neurochemick\u00e1 ud\u00e1lost“, proto\u017ee „kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b dost\u00e1v\u00e1 l\u00e1sku, inhibi\u010dn\u00ed posel serotonin se mno\u017e\u00ed a pom\u00e1h\u00e1 vyvolat pocit klidu a pohody“. I po n\u011bkolika letech studia bylo zji\u0161t\u011bno, \u017ee „dopamin se zvy\u0161uje p\u0159i obj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed“ (Janov 2001311-312).<\/p>\n

Lid\u00e9 v r\u016fzn\u00fdch f\u00e1z\u00edch sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed p\u0159ij\u00edmat l\u00e1sku. Mus\u00edme odbourat p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee ji pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed jen mal\u00e9 d\u011bti. Fyzick\u00fd kontakt posiluje vazbu s matkou, kter\u00e1 je prvn\u00ed a nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a kter\u00e1 se st\u00e1v\u00e1 skute\u010dn\u00fdm biologick\u00fdm a z\u00e1kladn\u00edm poutem. To je zn\u00e1m\u00e9 jako „vit\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010dl\u00e1nek“ nebo „prim\u00e1rn\u00ed \u010dl\u00e1nek“. P\u0159edch\u016fdkyn\u011b d\u00edky sv\u00e9 konstituci a povaze aktivuje mate\u0159sk\u00fd instinkt, program specifick\u00fd pro sav\u010d\u00ed druh, „spont\u00e1nn\u00ed probuzen\u00ed“. Je zdrojem n\u011bhy a pohlazen\u00ed a tato aktivace je mo\u017en\u00e1, pokud m\u00e1 emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed podporu, kter\u00e1 j\u00ed umo\u017e\u0148uje c\u00edtit se uvoln\u011bn\u011b, p\u0159ij\u00edman\u00e1 a v\u00edtan\u00e1 jako matka.<\/p>\n

P\u0159ekvapiv\u011b pr\u00e1v\u011b spojen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte s rodi\u010di, respektive s dosp\u011bl\u00fdmi, kte\u0159\u00ed tuto odpov\u011bdnost p\u0159evezmou, ur\u010duje schopnost vnit\u0159n\u00edch nervov\u00fdch spojen\u00ed, tedy formov\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161eho neurologick\u00e9ho syst\u00e9mu (mozku), v n\u011bm\u017e prob\u00edh\u00e1 komunikace.<\/p>\n

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mezi mozkem a srdcem ovliv\u0148uje rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed a na\u0161i celkovou kognitivn\u00ed s\u00ed\u0165. Jsme konfrontov\u00e1ni se dv\u011bma okolnostmi: vazbami a souvislostmi na\u0161eho vnit\u0159n\u00edho sv\u011bta a vazbami a souvislostmi s vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm sv\u011btem.<\/p>\n

Zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 propojen\u00ed v\u0161ech struktur, kter\u00e9 tvo\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 mozek, je pro n\u00e1\u0161 v\u00fdvoj optim\u00e1ln\u00ed, a to je naprosto z\u00e1visl\u00e9 na l\u00e1sce na\u0161ich rodi\u010d\u016f a prost\u0159ed\u00ed, ve kter\u00e9m vyr\u016fst\u00e1me, co\u017e stejn\u011b ovliv\u0148uje na\u0161i DNA. Tyto prvky n\u00e1m umo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed st\u00e1t se integrovan\u00fdmi lidmi se silnou, sebev\u011bdomou osobnost\u00ed a schopnost\u00ed spl\u00e9tat vazby.<\/p>\n

Vztahy a vazby mezi lidmi se buduj\u00ed s ka\u017edou zku\u0161enost\u00ed. Od prvn\u00edch kontakt\u016f s vnit\u0159n\u00edm sv\u011btem v mat\u010din\u011b l\u016fn\u011b, v prenat\u00e1ln\u00edm stadiu a ve vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm sv\u011bt\u011b v okam\u017eiku narozen\u00ed zanech\u00e1v\u00e1 komunikace z\u00e1kladn\u00ed otisk na v\u0161ech \u00farovn\u00edch, kter\u00e9 tvo\u0159\u00ed kognitivn\u00ed s\u00ed\u0165, jej\u00ed\u017e jsme sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed. Jak v\u00edme, tato s\u00ed\u0165 se skl\u00e1d\u00e1 z neurologick\u00e9ho syst\u00e9mu, endokrinn\u00edho syst\u00e9mu a nervov\u00e9ho syst\u00e9mu, kter\u00e9 jsou vz\u00e1jemn\u011b propojeny a umo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed n\u00e1m vytvo\u0159it si p\u0159edstavu o tom, jak\u00e9 jsou na\u0161e vztahy s matkou, otcem, p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00fdmi a dal\u0161\u00edmi lidmi ve vztahu k n\u00e1m sam\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, jak komunikujeme s druh\u00fdmi lidmi, vyvstane ot\u00e1zka: Jak d\u00e1v\u00e1me a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1me r\u016fzn\u00e9 pocity a emoce? Arthur Janov (2009442) tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee:<\/p>\n

„L\u00e1ska nen\u00ed jen o tom, \u017ee se d\u00edt\u011bte dot\u00fdk\u00e1te a dr\u017e\u00edte ho v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed. Pokud je mu odep\u0159eno vyj\u00e1d\u0159it to, co c\u00edt\u00ed, a mus\u00ed vylou\u010dit \u010d\u00e1st sebe sama, m\u016f\u017ee se st\u00e1le c\u00edtit nemilovan\u00e9, bez ohledu na to, jak moc ho rodi\u010de obj\u00edmaj\u00ed a hlad\u00ed.<\/p>\n

S\u00edla pohledu jako v\u00fdchoz\u00edho bodu pro vhodnou a smysluplnou komunikaci je zkr\u00e1tka nepopirateln\u00e1. Bez ohledu na n\u00e1\u0161 v\u011bk, pohled do o\u010d\u00ed druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed mezi lidmi most hlubok\u00e9ho spojen\u00ed. Toto jednoduch\u00e9, ale siln\u00e9 gesto sd\u011bluje mnohem v\u00edce ne\u017e slova. Kdy\u017e se s n\u011bk\u00fdm setk\u00e1v\u00e1me vizu\u00e1ln\u011b, sd\u011blujeme mu z\u00e1sadn\u00ed zpr\u00e1vu, \u017ee je pro n\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd, \u017ee je p\u0159\u00edtomen a \u017ee si jeho p\u0159\u00edtomnosti v\u00e1\u017e\u00edme.<\/p>\n

Tento vz\u00e1jemn\u00fd pohled vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed prostor vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho respektu a porozum\u011bn\u00ed a uvol\u0148uje cestu k autentick\u00e9 a obohacuj\u00edc\u00ed komunikaci. Ve sv\u011bt\u011b, kde jsme \u010dasto zahlceni slovy a technologiemi, m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159ipomenut\u00ed vlivu pohledu na na\u0161e mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy pos\u00edlit na\u0161e vazby a podpo\u0159it hlub\u0161\u00ed a smyslupln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vztahy.<\/p>\n

V ka\u017edodenn\u00edch interakc\u00edch proto pamatujme na s\u00edlu pohledu. Je to tich\u00e1, ale v\u00fdmluvn\u00e1 p\u0159ipom\u00ednka toho, \u017ee jsme p\u0159\u00edtomni jeden pro druh\u00e9ho, \u017ee si v\u00e1\u017e\u00edme p\u0159\u00edtomnosti druh\u00e9ho a \u017ee v tomto spole\u010dn\u00e9m okam\u017eiku vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edme smyslupln\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 pouto zalo\u017een\u00e9 na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9m respektu.<\/p>\n

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Laborato\u0159 pro samouky<\/p>\n

Esperanza Chac\u00f3n San Mateo-Costa Rica<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Autor: Esperanza Chac\u00f3n „Na po\u010d\u00e1tku \u017eivota znamen\u00e1 l\u00e1ska uspokojov\u00e1n\u00ed prim\u00e1rn\u00edch pot\u0159eb. V prvn\u00edch m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch a letech to znamen\u00e1 hodn\u011b mazlen\u00ed a tulen\u00ed. D\u00edt\u011b ned\u00e1v\u00e1 slovu ‚l\u00e1ska‘ v\u00fdznam, kter\u00fd mu d\u00e1v\u00e1me my, ale trp\u00ed, kdy\u017e mu chyb\u00ed. Fyzick\u00fd kontakt je pro d\u011bti nezbytnou podm\u00ednkou, bez n\u011bj nelze projevovat l\u00e1sku.“ (Janov 2009438, 439). Vazby, kter\u00e9 si vytvo\u0159\u00edme …<\/p>\n

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